.::GIRLS SUCK::.

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Girls SUCK! 

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At least that's what I use to think. Recovering mean girl over here. 🏻 

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I totally get it. Girls ARE emotional, judgmental, not trust worthy, can be mean, compare each other, gossip, have drama and we just don't get each other.

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Right?

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Well here is the deal, I know how you FEEL. I totally FELT the same way but what I FOUND is that...

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Girls ACTUALLY ARE beautiful, kind, genuine, real, honest, we share common struggles, insecure, introverted and require growth.

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I remember the feeling of it being fun to talk bad about someone behind their back or making fun of someone. Why? Because it made ME feel better about myself because I was insecure in so many ways. I wasn't willing to grow myself from the inside out because I was too busy being bitter.

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Last week on our beach retreat, I realized that all 20 or so of us ALL really genuinely enjoyed one another, everyone was looked at as beautiful, everyone had open hearts and ears. Instead of putting one another down, every few minutes there was something nice to say about someone. "I love your _____." "You are so kind" "You look so beautiful!" "Your arms look amazing." So on and on. We all genuinely enjoyed each other. There was no one left out.

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Right then and there I realized how grateful I am that the Lord has captured my heart and changed so much. He has used a community of women to repair insecurity and to grow me from the inside out.

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It has changed how I view women from judgement beauty. Not in a rose colored glasses kind of way but in a true genuine care way that builds one another up.

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How grateful I am to be a part of redefining relationships between women. If only I had learned that at a younger age.

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So I'm sorry. I'm sorry to ALL of the women I have judged, called out, made fun of, bullied and down right was ugly too. It had nothing to do with the you and all to do with me. Please forgive me?

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This opportunity has placed so much value in my life but this might be the one that I am most thankful for. God in his kindness has turned insecurity into self worth through him. He has redefined how I know women. He has restored so much of my soul through this community.

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Genuine community and friendships is something I need in my life. It took years of battles, thankful that my pride gave out and I can truly enjoy my life with women who lift me up, passionately champion me and correct me when I am wrong.

#RecoveringMeanGirl #NoMeanGirlsAllowed#RecoveringMeanGirlsWelcomed


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